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TO BE PRAYED FOR
For years I have taken part in and sometimes led prayers of intercession but my current illness is the first time that I have been the regular recipient. This started me thinking about the whole subject and how prayer works. What I originally intended as a simple thank you to all those who have supported my family and myself has turned into a series of articles, of which this is the first. Since prayers of intercession cover such a range of problems, for simplicity I concentrated on prayers for the sick although much of what I have written can apply to other subjects.
The act of prayer can have a profound effect on all involved but we seldom analyse the process. Hours of sitting, while various chemicals were pumped into me, gave me the opportunity.
We believe in an omnipotent God, therefore believe that there is nothing he cannot do to intervene directly when he chooses. However, I have never been a subscriber to the idea of treating God like a celestial fireman, popping down to help every time we dial a prayerful 999. Given 6//7 billion people in the world and the consequent vast quantity of prayer, it is far more likely that the majority will be answered by other means. Either by inspiring others to “feed his sheep” or by invoking rules God has already written into the world that he has made; a sort of God-given sprinkler system triggered by the love and concern expressed by our prayers.
In my case, the consultant told me that my positive attitude not only helped psychologically but helped produce enzymes that aided healing. My ability to remain so positive has been supported by the love and prayers of so many friends throughout the country that I feel not only amazed but also very humbled. Prayer lists from Welsh Chapel to Greek Orthodox, from Evangelical to High Anglican and Catholic and from Mosque to Synagogue. Love is the most powerful force on Earth and with so many friends kneeling side by side with me, how could I fail to respond or sustain my optimism?
This attitude, engendered by prayerful support, also helps when dealing with the health professionals. Many of these are truly dedicated and I believe act as God’s healing instrument on Earth. It makes their job so much easier if patients take treatment without complaint, are prepared to laugh and joke or even listen to their problems. Sometimes, inspired by prayer, healing can be a two-way street.
I have always had difficulty praying for myself. I suppose that I feel that it is presumptuous. The one prayer that I have constantly made for over forty years is for the opportunity to serve. God did not give me lung cancer. A possible predisposition, probably coupled with fifty years of self-abuse, did that. However, God has a waste not want not policy, where everything can be used. Suddenly, people who have had a poor diagnosis for themselves or a relative have started to approach Margaret and me. From our own experience, we are able to encourage them to have a positive attitude and to give them advice and information. This provides support and eases their fears. Without my being ill, ministering to them would be far less effective.
Lastly, being prayed for can change your attitude to things other than your immediate illness or difficulty. During my years as a Christian, I have done many things to sustain God’s church on Earth: deacon, member of church council, fabric steward and Sunday school teacher. However, I saw so many examples of unchristian behaviour within the church that, many years ago, I resolved to dedicate my time to serving Christ in the wider community rather than supporting the church institution. The love that I have received since becoming ill has changed my mind. I have to respond to that love and these articles are my first tentative steps towards taking responsibility again.
A different sort of healing in response to prayer but healing nonetheless.

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TO PRAY FOR OTHERS
Praying for others can have a profound effect on the person praying.
How often in life have you talked over a problem with a friend and come to realize that you knew the answer all along? God, by acting as our listening friend, frequently enables us to see the answer for ourselves. Prayer creates a relationship between ourselves and the person that we are praying for. Since the relationship exists, then there is nothing more natural than that we should act as God’s agent and meet the needs that we see. Over the centuries, millions of Christians have responded that way. Some have changed the world but most have just provided the small kindnesses, the love and understanding, that totaled together makes the world a better place and God’s kingdom nearer.
In my current situation, I have been blessed with a host of prayers and wonderful support. For them to pray effectively, friends have had to contact me to find out the facts. My being ill has proved a terrific way to catch up with people who time and distance had reduced to casual card exchanges. An old boss of thirty years ago, our old postman, a secretary from a firm that I left twenty0five years ago and many others. Even total strangers, friends of friends, who have suffered the same illness, phoned to offer support. Situations like that form a network of loving concern that not only helps the patient but gives strength to all. The person receiving the prayers becomes the conduit joining all that love together. The person praying can have their own faith enhanced by seeing the effect of their prayers on the person who is ill and gain strength from being part of a wider fellowship.
Unfortunately, sometimes, particularly in the case of serious illness, the small things that we can do are limited. When you see someone suffering that you love and care for, you can feel frustrated and helpless. You have to rely on professionals. Then, prayer can prove as beneficial to the person praying as to the recipient. It gives an opportunity to feel that they are contributing and inspiring the doctors and nurses to act on God’s behalf. In fact, a two-way reaction occurs. The less helpless the relatives and friends feel, the less energy the patient has to expend protecting them rather than concentrating on fighting the illness.
Lastly, to be able to pray effectively, we have to be informed. With knowledge can come understanding and wisdom, which in turn enrich the person praying.
A wise nun that I was speaking to recently said that even in silent retreat, she knew what was going on in the world because of the prayers of intercession. For that to happen, all the people participating need to understand the world and how other people act and think. Christ was always aware of those around him. To carry out that charge, we must become as aware as he was about the best prayers and actions that are needed.
One note of caution. There is a danger that our own desire to help will run contrary to the best interest of the person being prayed for. It is not just good enough to care or be informed but also wise enough to be sensitive to the real needs of those we are praying for.
HAS PRAYER FAILED?
In my first two discussions on prayer, I dealt with the effect of prayer on both the person praying and the receiver. This time, I would like to cover the situation that occurs when the answer is not what we expect.
God’s wisdom is not the same as ours. We might strive to be informed, wise and sensitive but we are frail human beings. Our emotions and preconceived ideas come into play and often distort the picture. The closer to the person or situation being prayer for, the cloudier our picture of what is required will be. This is particularly the case with serious or terminal illness.
Our first and natural reaction is to pray for a cure. However, this might not always be possible. No matter how good modern medicine, the doctors do not win every time. The one constant in life is death. God created a renewable world and everyone must face dying and the death of those we love. Because they do not understand or accept this, surviving relatives often blame God for not answering a prayer that it was unwise to have prayed in the first place. The length of our lives is finite. Therefore, God has given each of us only a limited period to grow into the person that he wants us to be. In that circumstance, the prayer that we should make for our beloved ones is not to prevent death but to ask God for what he knows is the best thing for them.
God’s answer to prayer often mirrors the answer that the health professionals would give. A successful treatment might be to put, say, a cancer into long remission. Alternatively, it might be simply pain control or a short prolongation of the patient’s life. On the other hand, it could just be acceptance and peace for the dying. They are all successful outcomes. God is more likely to know and understand the real needs of the patient than those too involved. To want to keep someone who is suffering great pain or is simply tired of fighting might be understandable but is very selfish.
The same principle can apply to many other subjects of intercession prayers. Big issues do not lend themselves to simplistic prayers or answers. They require knowledge and understanding. For instance, when we examine issues such as war and natural disaster, we can legitimately pray for the individual victims but think twice about the cause of their problem. Sometimes, it needs an enormous shock for governments and those others responsible to face up to and start to deal with problems. Often, in democracies, it takes the voters to be stirred up before even concerned politicians can act. So, be careful of what you ask. God’s answer might be to give the world some very nasty wake-up call!
Anyway, back to the easier subject of sickness. At the time of writing, although responding well to treatment, I do not know the outcome of my own illness. In a way, it is immaterial. The prayers that have been made on my behalf have already worked. Their support has helped me to fight and maintain a positive attitude. Good for me and good for my family. The fact that so many people care has encouraged me to rethink my Christian life. Good for me and I hope good for the church. Also, I can genuinely say that, despite not knowing the end of the story, I feel incredibly well, have plenty of energy and find myself trying to inspire others.
It always helps to have reasons to fight. It might be for ourselves or those close to us. However, the greatest strength comes when you believe in something outside your immediate circle. I find that the certainty that God still has work for me sustains me and motivates me to continue.

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